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Thursday, April 28, 2011

An empowering c-section

It almost seems like an oxymoron to say a c-section is empowering, but check out this lady's birth story. That's how she described her attempt to VBAC. Unfortunately, she had a cord pro-lapse, but she also had some very good midwifes that helped her out. http://blog.ican-online.org/2011/04/28/cam-birth-stories-from-cesarean-to-empowering-cbac/

"I don’t feel traumatized from this birth. I got to go into labor on my own, I labored through strong contractions and felt amazing. I feel incredibly empowered by the fact that when ** hit the fan, I stayed calm. If I can focus on my breath through this, I can endure anything. And I know if you can fight back like you did, you most certainly can endure anything, too."

The elements of feeling empowered have to do with control. Here, this woman felt empowered because she was able to labor and work through contractions even though things were chaotic. I'm sure this also helped her baby get what oxygen it could because she was able to keep calm.

So how do we help women feel empowered? By allowing them to make choices and helping them to realize their own strengths no matter what the situation.

1 comment:

Enjoy Birth said...

I love what you said -
So how do we help women feel empowered? By allowing them to make choices and helping them to realize their own strengths no matter what the situation.
That is SO true!

Birth is a Journey: Does it have to be life changing?


  • One woman might have to climb on an overfilled boat, risking her life and nearly dying as she escapes over the ocean to come to this land. This experience could certainly be life altering. It may very well color the rest of her life, positively or negatively. (I overcame this amazing struggle and here I am triumphant! OR Holy crap, that was SO hard I don’t know if I can go on! By the way, neither response is “right”. No one would judge the woman with the 2nd response.)
  • One woman may buy an airplane ticket, sit on a comfortable 747 and fly to America with a nice smooth flight and landing. She is happy to be in America. Those welcoming her are glad she is here safe and sound. She may only travel by plane 2-4 times in her life, so it is pretty memorable. But the journey itself probably wouldn’t be life changing; it would simply be a journey.
  • One woman may learn to fly an ultra-light plane to lead a flock of geese into America teaching them to migrate. This experience could certainly be empowering and life altering.