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Thursday, June 30, 2011

What do you need to have to be a mother?

This was a question that was posed to me and I thought I'd share my list.

1)a desire to be a good mom
2)willingness to work hard
3)willingness to change
5)the idea that what you are doing is important

And then I had my list of nice to have, but quite honestly, I learned this traits because I was a mom...
time management
ability to work with others
organizational skills

I really think this last list can go on and on.  I also figure that it'll be perfected by the time I have great grandchildren:)

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Birth is a Journey: Does it have to be life changing?

  • One woman might have to climb on an overfilled boat, risking her life and nearly dying as she escapes over the ocean to come to this land. This experience could certainly be life altering. It may very well color the rest of her life, positively or negatively. (I overcame this amazing struggle and here I am triumphant! OR Holy crap, that was SO hard I don’t know if I can go on! By the way, neither response is “right”. No one would judge the woman with the 2nd response.)
  • One woman may buy an airplane ticket, sit on a comfortable 747 and fly to America with a nice smooth flight and landing. She is happy to be in America. Those welcoming her are glad she is here safe and sound. She may only travel by plane 2-4 times in her life, so it is pretty memorable. But the journey itself probably wouldn’t be life changing; it would simply be a journey.
  • One woman may learn to fly an ultra-light plane to lead a flock of geese into America teaching them to migrate. This experience could certainly be empowering and life altering.